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  • THE DAILY SAM: THE DAY OF THE SHAPELY, ROUND BOTTOMS

    August 14, 2009

    • Sure, I notice women's bodies—but today was different. The first shapely female posterior I saw was at San Francisco’s West Portal MUNI platforms as I was running for a train. That woman disappeared into a crowd, but the moment I sat down another lovely tookus presented itself, right at eye level. She got off at Powell Street, only to be replaced by another derriere extraordinaire. On the ...
  • The Fox by DH Lawrence: A Review

    December 14, 2008

    • After a certain age (perhaps 30? perhaps as early as 20?), one probably shouldn't read too much of DH Lawrence's writing, or too little of it. Now and again I return to his fiction, poetry, and essays either to reread something or take on a new work. He's a unique, over-the-top, incantatory, powerful writer whose contribution to human psychology remains unverified by almost anyone else. When I ...
  • What is Commitment?

    November 30, 2008

    • An observation……. WHAT IS COMMITMENT? I saw a play last night called ON THE ROCKS with the tag line, “boys, beer and broken relationships.”  Well, I know a bit about all three of those things and I was curious to see how much the modern take on what it’s all about has changed since I was initiated into the game women played way back in the early fifties.  And wow! I couldn’t ...
  • Eleventh Blog

    August 8, 2008

    • 9:29am... Wearing a new t shirt for casual Fridays, and it has a guy on it that looks like a Weebl and he is either one of two people... Michael Jackson (Jacko?) or Elvis. I'm thinking it's the latter because he's got poofy hair and is wearing one of those Evil Knievel outfits that Elvis used to wear. it could be Evil Knievel though.... However, the chick at the store with the piercings and dyed ...
  • The Ultimate Relationship

    July 25, 2008

    • Recently, while sitting at a neighborhood cafe in San Francisco, I sat next to a young French couple, clearly at the high tide of their romance. One of the things that struck me forcefully was the sweetness and charm of the woman as she related to the man, who also showed no fear in displaying his affection for the woman. I was charmed too, and envious.            My problems with ...
  • R we d8ing?

    June 24, 2008

    • It was late when my cell phone rang, shaking me from the stupor that even my book, “Bonk: The Curious Couple of Science and Sex,” crashing onto the floor for the fifth time couldn’t do. It was Sara. “You asleep?” “Well, I’m not exactly sure but I’ve read the same paragraph four times now — more, actually, if you count last night. What’s up?” ...
  • Freedom vs. Mr. Right

    June 11, 2008

    • When a few of my friends got together recently — some in struggling marriages — we started talking about the good things that have happened to us because of our divorces. Overall, a lot of good had come from them, so I was originally going to blog about that, but the concept of "freedom" kept coming up.I have often said that, too: that I love my new-found freedom. But freedom from ...