I am not unemployed!
This is sort of a new pet peeve of mine, and one that I am curious if anyone else has had similar experiances. I have noticed a certain public perception, not with everyone mind you but there are a select few that don't seem to fathom the concept of freelance work.
On occasion I do randomly get someone who seems to play on my good nature, and assume since I am not clocking into an office from 9-5, then I must have nothing but freetime. Just because I make my own hours, does not mean I don't work very hard at what I do. And just because I am not a household name like a Stephen King or someone, does not mean I am not working!
I admit, my credits are sparse and few and far between, I tend to switch hats from "writer at large" to "shameless (self) promoter" as the market winds blow. So I have taken some time, perhaps one could call it a "sabatical" but I have not had an ounce of free time during that time, it's just been more work behind the scenes instead of center spotlight.
I had an unfortionate falling out with someone over this misconception of my free time. That because I often take time to enjoy the daytime hours, run errands, visit some people, take a mid day matinee, etc. That I could be spending that time helping them for next to nothing. I feel bad for the way certian people reacted, but I wonder if this is common for most "less-than-well-known" authors?
Also on more than one occasion I will get some random person that will see me out and about on my random "clear the cobwebs" moments and ask "are you working yet?" The implication being "at a real job, like me." to which my usual response is "I'm a freelancer so I am always working on something!" and oft times I get a puzzled look and a response of "oh, you're still doing that?"
Like I said, it's not a majority of people you run into. I am fortunate enough to live in an artist community, so most everyone in my general area live from their creations, be it writting, art, film, etc. But when I venture outward to "the real world" I am often met with some very odd assumptions or questions.
Does this ever happen to you? What do you usually say?
Before I sign off I would like to thank everyone who follows my redroom blog over on Facebook and via RSS feeds! I will try to make a more posts on a regular basis and hopefully you will continue to enjoy my random blatherings. I still want to put together something on comic creation in the 21st century but unsure whether to do it as a blog or an article.
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Eric Nichols says:
I'm not homeless; I'm a
I'm not homeless; I'm a "consultant." :)
Linda Jo Hunter says:
The job interview
"So what have you been doing this last year then"?
"I took time off to write a book".
"Oh".
The pencil goes down on the sheet of paper in front of the woman. You notice her white shirt peeking out of the navy blazer. Her hair is groomed straight back with jell and her makeup is perfect. You can almost, but not quite, see that the line she is drawing is through your name.
Belle Yang says:
My time is flexible
and people assume I am available for visits any ol' time. If others are on vacation and coming to town, they expect that I drop everything and go on vacation, too.
I do love my hours. I sleep when I am tired. I work when I want. I am up at 3 AM, if I need to be. I can sleep till noon.
Danny Donovan says:
Exactly!
I get this a lot. People seem to assume anytime they need someone to do something for them, that I am doing nothing but sitting around waiting for someone to call me to use me for their needs.
I find that I tend to work more late at night, less chance of being interrupted by telemarketers, or random folks stopping by like you say.. It's just frustrating. I try very hard to help ad many people as I can, but I DO try to organize my time.
And its as if my work isn't as important as other people's purely because I can do it from home. It's crazy!
Writer At Large, Shameless Self-Promoter
Belle Yang says:
It's always awkward to kick people out of the house
as I had to do this afternoon. A friend was going to drop something off, I made tea, as it is hospitable to offer something, but an hour into the ritual, I said, "I have to get back to work," and that was that. My friend would have stayed 3 hours, if I let her. I learn to be abrupt and a bit rude. Oh, well.
I prefere to meet people for coffee so that I can just go. Yes, evenings and 12 to 3 AM are lovely. Sometimes I hear the owl hooting outside in the cypresses.
Anne Harper says:
I'm not staring idly into space, I'm composing my next chapter!
"Since you're not doing anything, let's... (fill in the blank)."
So very happy to see that I'm not the only one who's bothered by this. I was starting to think that my head was too big, that I was becoming some sort of megalomaniac who should just buy an island in order to get some proper writing done.
"So, how many books have you sold?"
Do I ask anyone how much money they make? The thought repulses me; I wouldn't dream of it, yet somehow, it's fine to ask that of an author. Why is that?
"Do you need me to bring you some groceries, since... you know... you ain't doin' nothin'?"
Yeah, really; double negative in an unsolicited offer for financial assistance, as my book hasn't been on Oprah yet, or NY Times or... Whatever. Apparently I'm flat broke and starving and doing nothing. Ooops! Not doing nothing, which means doing something, right?
And here's my favorite:
"What've you been up to?"
"Well, I wrote and published a book..."
"Oh, you know what - I always wanted to do that! I think I'd be a great author! I have so many stories inside me...etcetcetc."
So, do it already! I did!
Thanks for the opportunity to vent! Glad to hear I'm not alone:)
Anne Harper