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Spare Sarah the sexism

October 29, 2008, 6:46 am

Why is Ms. Palin being made out to be a bimbo when everyone else is in the process of selling themselves as well? Had I been a US citizen it is most certain that I would not vote Republican, but I find the treatment given out to Sarah quite distasteful.

How many American feminists have raised their voices against the look-alike strippers at a gentleman’s club in Las Vegas who were judged based on how much they resembled the senator wearing a swimsuit? What is the reasoning behind such reductionism? That she is a former beauty queen? How about a contest for McCain lookalike war heroes? Or Obama-type lawyers? Or community workers? Or Joe Biden anti-Viet heroes?

The sexism isn’t restricted to gender alone, but to a certain kind of woman. Strange. Mother Teresa was against abortion and she got a pedestal. Hillary Clinton ‘stood by her man’ and was deified. And what about her make-over? They are talking about Sarah’s wardrobe. Yes, it costs a lot of money, as much as getting cheerleaders and other symbols of support.

There is not much issue-based opposition going on. It is not necessary to respond to bimboesque behaviour in a similar manner. Dumbing down does not work when the stakes are high.
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The idea of objectification itself is complicated.

Someone told me at a time when I was posting pictures of parts of me that I was objectifying myself. It led to an internal monologue:

Me 1: “Why do you do it?”

Me 2: “Perhaps I want to put myself up there by removing myself from me.”

Me 1: “So you objectify yourself?”

Me 2: “One gets objectified anyway by others.”

Me 1: “Why do you want to play their game?”

Me 2: “It isn't the same. They see disembodied parts. Eyes, mouth, nose, neck, breasts, waist, hips, hands, fingers.”

Me 1: “And you are not? You are doing precisely that.”

Me 2: “I am turning this objectification on its head. If you notice, I have distorted as well. I do make a statement. In my put up ‘parts’, I made a cross over it, essentially saying this is cut out, deleted, unimportant.”

Me 1: “So you are reducing yourself?”

Me 2: “I am reducing the idea of the Self as parts.”

Me 1: “Who is going to see the metaphysical when the physical hits you first?”

Me 2: “I know I am not a Barbie; you cannot just put a key in me and get me started. That level of self-esteem is there, which is why it is possible for me to do what I do. That is also the reason I do not feel devastated by feministic critiques that tend to be hugely one-dimensional.”

Me 1: “The question remains: will anyone get it?”

Me 2: “That’s not important. Seeing something is of the senses; understanding requires more. Besides, don’t people visualise things?”

Me 1: “I still feel there are pitfalls here. It can become a cause for humiliation.”

Me 2: “One does not have to put parts of oneself to invite humiliation. People find ruses – words, actions, shared moments, confidences, the past, the present…everything becomes removed from the person one is. I do not fear the kind of humiliation that comes with putting up these ‘objects’ because I have control over them. They are truly mine and do not need the crutch of another. But it depends on the way of seeing. And perceiving. There can be several truths.”

Me 1: “As in truth is relative?”

Me 2: “Also, the truth has to work within the parameters of several lies, so it breaks itself up into several truths.”

Me 1: “Can truth be objectified?”

Me 2: “It can be ‘subjectified’ to fit into our worldview. Therefore, what we call objectification is what I see as ‘subjectification’. As subject I do not fall prey as object because I have the benefit of a conscious decision. This exhibit can raise hell, so to speak.”
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Returning to Sarah Palin, I think she is aware of her role. Her gaffes may become as comedic as Bushisms, but no one walked the ramp in a fire helmet or a torchlight aimed at some godforsaken cave to humour him.

Pavel Somov, Ph.D.

Pavel Somov, Ph.D. says:

you bring up good points

compassion's never superfluous: aside from a "politician" S. there is a human S., your essay is a nice reminder to be empathic, so you bring up good, albeit unpopular (in certain circles) points... we objective because we are afraid - you know that whole war-time caricature-anime visual aesthetic when enemies morph into rodents... fear, after all, is an attention-focusing modality of mind - it depends on an object... so, compassion for all involved in this mess - for the objectified and the objectifying (since objectification of another -  as your innner dialogue poignantly reveals - is inevitably self-objectification; fear reduces the nuance of reality to a focal point of threat and reduces the complexity of the one who is feeling afraid down to a focal point of fear).

thanks for the stimulus

Farzana  Versey

Farzana Versey says:

Yes, fear

That is what most of us feel, Pavel. The human has become a superfluity, which is why ideas follow the herd.

Thanks for engaging in the dialogue...I sometimes feel I am just talking into nothingness!

Abdelwahab Hammoudi

Abdelwahab Hammoudi says:

Truth

Can truth be objectified?”

“It can be ‘subjectified’ to fit into our worldview

If people reach that point,we would live in tolerance and peace!

H

Farzana  Versey

Farzana Versey says:

If we can...

put ourselves in our own shoes well enough (and often we don't, we try those ridiculous ones that everyone wears), then that too would bring about contentment. I am a bit iffy about peace, as is understood, Hammoudi!

~F

Ellen Sheeley

Ellen R. Sheeley says:

I'm with you on this,

I'm with you on this, Farzana.

And about the beauty pageantry. . .didn't she participate in that because she comes from a poor family, wanted to attend uni, and needed some scholarship money?  She is a post Title IX female and a good athlete, but it took a while for the athletic scholarship money to even start to be divided up equally between the sexes.  So, to me, the beauty thing takes on a different meaning when the context is considered.  Why is no one appreciating her resourcefulness, self sufficiency, and commitment to getting an education?

Farzana  Versey

Farzana Versey says:

Irrespective

Irrespective of her background - even if she were rich - I think the issue here is reducing a person to the lowest common denominator, and that is not on.

Political disagreement is fine, but this amounts to politicising a woman's physicality and therefore her persona, of which the body is a part.

Thanks for sharing your views.

~F

 

Steve Brook

Steve J Brook says:

Sarah

I don't mind people who make a virtue out of ignorance. But when such people are frontline contenders for the most powerful office in the land, if not the world, then I get goose bumps.

Farzana  Versey

Farzana Versey says:

It isn't about...

Sarah's ignorance, Steve. That is a different issue. We are talking about the dumbing down of the opposition itself. I get goosebumps thinking about that.