Old friends remembered
As anyone who's read my Japanese print blogmost likely knows, I was incredibly fortunate in having Jack Hillier as my mentor. He was a scholar and a gentleman and a very dear friend. I can't even begin to count the ways in which knowing him impacted, and continues to impact, upon my life. Well, a wonderful thing happened today. I was attending a book signing for 'The Wonderful Demise of Benjamin Arnold Guppy' at Waterstone's in Wells, which is about an hour from my home, when a couple approached and asked about the book. We got talking, and I mentioned that my last book had been about Japanese art. The gentleman asked if I knew of Jack Hillier, as he was Mr Hillier's nephew. Given the fact that I do not live in Wells, the couple (Martin and Gill) do not live there either, and the Hilliers lived in Surrey, what are the chances of us meeting at a book signing in Wells for a book that has nothing whatsoever to do with Japanese art, when we were all there for only one day? Consider the size of the country, if not the world, and the number of people in it... the possible locations that either one of us could have been in. And yet, there we were together.
There isn't a day goes by that I don't miss Jack and Mary Hillier... wonderful people who were part of a wonderful family. They are always in my thoughts, but have been even more so these few months as I'm working on another Japanese print project and refer to Jack Hillier's notes often. I was quite overwhelmed today, and the meeting made this particular signing so very special.
The photograph is one of Jack Hillier at his home in Surrey. It's how I shall always remember him... happy, enthusiastic, vibrant, and having a jolly good laugh.
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Belle Yang says:
What a beautiful story, Gina
Mr. Hillier has a most kind face and the photographer has caught him in mid-laughter. Ryoma has told me about your special relationship to him, so I can imagine the tears you may have shed (external or internal) at this serendipitous encounter. May this new friendship evolve into something as magical.
Rest up, dearest Gina, for your next successful signing. I know the toll it takes on the healthy and strong to travel, to talk, smile, engage, to put your heart out for all.
Gina Collia-Suzuki says:
Belle, the meeting has
Belle, the meeting has churned up all sorts of feelings. In some ways it seems like forever since the Hilliers left us, in others it seems as though it were yesterday... or as if they never left. I can imagine what Mr Hillier would have said when I proclaimed my intention to catalogue every Utamaro print, and the encouragement he'd have given. I can imagine Mrs Hillier's reaction to Ben Guppy and his wife and the conversations we'd have had. They were always so full of life... life was a real celebration for them. They were letter writers too, so I have their words to keep me company.
I think I need to be refuelled after today's signing, or to go into the garage to have some of my parts replaced! My teeth... they ache from being on show such a lot. Who'd have thought that good dentistry would be so important to a writer!
Belle Yang says:
LOL. Yes teeth and smile muscles
have to be toned and strengthened for the show and tell. Sleep will restore you, so I hope you have a marathon sleep session.
I am in the stage of life where old friends, mentors, teachers are ill. I never know if I'll see them again. I was supposed to have lunch with Mr. Stone, my art teacher. We invited several of his old students, but Mr. Stone is suffering from spreading cancer AND shingles, so the lunch was canceled. I love my older friends. It's reprehensible in America where the young seem to find the elders too unhip or not edgy enough. I hate the word edgy. Edgy is so passe.
Gina Collia-Suzuki says:
I have always had friends
I have always had friends much older than myself (when I first met Jack Hillier I was a teen, he was in his seventies). I've had some friends of a similar age, but they are few in comparison. Sadly, when our friends are so much older, we face loss after loss. But it is better to suffer the pain of loss and have the opportunity to know such inspirational individuals than to live a life without ever knowing them.
I cannot understand the obsession with youth. 'Young' (these days, that seems to be before the age of 20) is that stage in life when we know little, don't know how to dress, and have pimples... what's so fantastic about that?
Kathy Cummings says:
too funny!
As we all approached 60, my peers were having anxiety attacks. I told them I would rather be sixty and know what I know now, than be 20 and have to learn life lessons it in this day and age. Smiles... I have a friend in Haywards Heath that is approaching 70 if she isn't 70 already. She used to work in a book store there. If I ever go see her again, perhaps you'd like to meet an ol' gal like me?
Smiles again, Kathy
Gina Collia-Suzuki says:
Kathy, that would be lovely!
Kathy, that would be lovely! And you're no ol' gal!
I have a friend who used to live near Haywards Heath. We met due to the fact that she, like me, had horrid neighbours... we joined the same support network. Her neighbour threatened her with a chainsaw. What a world we live in! They do say that truth is stranger than fiction.
Kathy Cummings says:
Smile!
hello Gina. Was browsing this site ans saw a familiar face... Yours! So good to see you here and read of your wonderful event.
Your friend, Kathy
Gina Collia-Suzuki says:
Kathy!
I didn't know you were at Red Room... it's good to see you here. I love this place. If the management offered tents and use of the staff bathroom I'd move in.
Huntington W. Sharp says:
Hmmm...feature idea!
Gina, I'll see what our software developers can do. :)
Huntington Sharp, Red Room
Gina Collia-Suzuki says:
Huntington, when you bring
Huntington, when you bring up the tents and staff bathroom with the software developers, is there any chance of mentioning a hot chocolate machine and free lollipops? The former for me and the latter for my dearest who currently believes he's Kojak.
Ryoma Collia-Suzuki says:
Hehe
Who loves ya, baby?