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Robert C. Rummel-Hudson Memoir writer

My thoughts on a dumb joke

March 20, 2009, 12:58 pm

Okay, so I keep getting email about President Obama's "Special Olympics" remark on Leno last night, so I thought I'd address it here. I don't seem to be seeing a lot of reaction to other special needs parenting writers on the subject, but I suspect that's because most of them see the big picture.
So here's my take, in handy bulleted form:

  • It wasn't a very clever remark, and it was obviously ill-advised. I'm not sure I found it outright offensive, but it was extremely disappointing. I was really surprised, and remain so today.
  • His quick response showed sensitivity, sincerity and an understanding of just how badly he'd screwed up. If nothing else, he at least understood how badly it would be taken, which is something, anyway.
  • Of the nearly $44 billion dollars in federal stimulus aid to schools that's going to be available to schools in the next month or so, $6.1 billion of that will go to special education, specifically to augment funding for the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act. This money can't be used by state and local governments to replace money that they allocate to special education, so it represents a real and significant increase in funding.
  • President Obama has pledged to fully fund IDEA during his presidency. (Congress originally promised to fund forty percent of IDEA, with the rest coming from state and local governments, but actual federal funding has never exceeded eighteen percent.) Will he deliver on this promise? I suspect, given his record so far, that he'll try a lot harder than anyone else who has occupied the office since IDEA was signed into law in 1975.

So my opinion on the Leno gaffe? Whatever. Given the choice between insincere platitudes from the likes of Sarah "I'm a FRIEND to the special needs parent; I'm one of YOU" Palin (who just rejected the part of the stimulus package -- $160 million for education -- that would have increased training for special education teachers in Alaska), and a president who made a really stupid joke while actually helping these kids in a real way, I think only an ideologue would choose the former.

And honestly, you should hear some of the jokes that special needs parents make when the rest of you aren't around. If the president makes good on his promises to us, he's welcome to sit at our table and share in our gallows humor, too.

Susan Brown

Susan Brown says:

We do have to be able to

We do have to be able to laugh, or we'd cry all day. Laughing is definitely better. Susan

Evie Shockley

Evie Shockley says:

this was good to read

I appreciate your thoughtful, factually grounded analysis of this turn of events. Not to brush the insensitivity of the remark aside, like you, I would say that actions speak louder than words -- especially words that unfortunately become part of one's vocabulary by osmosis, while one is young and living in a less evolved era. I have to be very careful all the time to avoid linguistic short-cuts that trample all over other folks' feelings. It gets easier and easier to do, but still the words linger long after we know better. I try as hard as I expect others to -- and give others the occasional "get out of jail free" card I've been given.

Peace,
Evie

Kunzang Drolma

Kunzang Drolma says:

thanks for a sharp and clear

thanks for a sharp and clear perspective that went beyond the surface.

Chris Rodell

Chris Rodell says:

well reasoned

Thanks for taking this one on and giving us some insight. I cringed when I heard it, but am so in the tank for Obama that I was ready to pass it off as clumsy giddiness from joking with Jay.