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Stacy Ann Nyikos Children's Author

Expect the Unexpected

October 27, 2008, 7:25 am

Just when I thought the doldrums of revisions and heavy edits were about to pull me down forever into the nebulous, swirling morasse of writer-tude, I had two of the most unexpected and thrilling surprises this weekend.

It all began with a voicemail. (Note the hook of a beginning and immediate pull of this tale)

A girlfriend of mine with whom I roomed together in grad school and who now lives on the East Coast and I haven't seen for more than half an hour in the last eight years called to tell me her company was sending her to Tulsa - honestly, what are the chances? - on business. Even better, I happen to live in a suburb of Tulsa.

I picked her up from the airport last night at 10 p.m. and then we spent most of the night chatting. It was so much fun. I'd post pictures, but we looked like zombies this morning. The older you get, the worse those late nights are on appearances. Ugh. So, I'm posting a picture of what I fell like on the inside, but that the bags under my eyes and wan color of my skin may actually be kinda masking.

Now, if that wasn't thrill enough, my husband agreed to go clothes shopping for our daughters with me. For anyone whose husband has a phobia about malls, this is really close to miraculous. Not only did he agree, he suggested we go shopping for them. He said, brace yourselves, he thought they needed clothes. I checked to make sure I wasn't stuck in edits and had revised my husband into saying that.

No, he'd said it. He'd suggested. And he was ready to go shopping. The surreal events didn't end there. He helped find - dare I say it - clothes on sale. The man willingly and of his own accord went through entire racks of mark downs all by himself.

I am...sniff sniff...so loved.

So there's my weekend in review. Monumental. It's all gravy from here.

Abdelwahab Hammoudi

Abdelwahab Hammoudi says:

Hi

The wind is blowing in the right direction.You can sail-off.

Hammoudi

Stacy Nyikos

Stacy Ann Nyikos says:

If I could just get over being so tired. When does this happen

to the human body? I mean, not that I can do anything about it, but I'd like to register a complaint with the gene pool. I didn't sign up for tired after only moderately long nights. Do you think the gene pool will listen??

Pavel Somov, Ph.D.

Pavel Somov, Ph.D. says:

Auspicious moments

auspicious moments as catalysts of re-vision (renewed vision)?  who knows, right, we'll have to... see...

pavel

Stacy Nyikos

Stacy Ann Nyikos says:

I'm glad the universe sends me a bone like this every once in a

while. It definitely re-directs my vision away from the chaos of daily life and back outwards a bit for the bigger picture.

David Wilson

David Niall Wilson says:

Well....

The all-nighter sounds fun, but I have to say I can relate to the husband's normal lack of enthusiasm.  I love buying clothes for my daughter - five.  If I make the same mistake for the 17 year old (almost 18 year old) daughter, or the 15 year old boy, I am reminded why I generally hate lengthy clothes shopping.  I work at it, and they either give me a placating half grin or outright hate what I have chosen...

I also hate being stuck in a store going through clothing rack after rack after rack...because I think if you go to buy a shirt, you go to the shirt rack, give it a quick glance, pick what you need and GO (lol) I *will* go for the one on sale if it's not hideous, but I hate long-term browsing.  Books I can browse...clothing not so much.

And to put this in perspective, I'm not just "typical" in this. I know a blazer from a blouse, and I can name more than seven colors on sight.  I'm not sure what it is that prevents that shared shopping experience to really work for me...

Glad you had such a good day though, and hope it removes somd of the 'tude so you can dive back into revisions.

 David

Stacy Nyikos

Stacy Ann Nyikos says:

High Functioning

You sound like a high functioning male shopper! I know shopping is not what every guy dreams of, but it's fun to share every once in a whilee.  And I'm back in the throes of revisions today. They're going along pretty well. I wish they went along as easily as shopping, but then,  where would the  sturm und drrang be if they did?  I'm convinced that a dose of suffering on my part is integral to a good piece. I don't know why. My human nature perhaps.