There Is No Such Thing As Failure
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Everyone is successful by virtue of experiencing the life desired and the life not desired. Success, though, is usually confused with an accumulation of “things” such as houses, cars, clothes, etc., and many people who appear to have an abundance of “things” in their lives are often dismally unhappy with many other aspects. By personal thought, they are successful in getting exactly what they want, whether or not they are conscious of it and whether or not it is personally good for them. The reality though is that “things” are only extensions of thought, and in fact, “things” have to do only with acceptance of the life you wish to live and the conditions you wish to experience. No one can do anything for you, or to you, unless you accept their authority but it is still based on your thoughts. Strengths and weaknesses are maintained by your own thinking regardless of the control you permit others to have for whatever reasons you deem valid and appropriate.
If you are really fed up with the way your life is going and really want to make changes, Self-Revealization Acceptance will help you do it. It leads you quickly and intelligently into the position of accepting the tangible experience of your desire. It cuts through all of the chaff that keeps you associated with erroneous ideas of guilt, unworthiness, or any form of negative sentiment and manipulative grace.
Negative sentiment is subconscious guilt that you may not be aware of, but which limits you in all of your desires. It is your acceptance, consciously or unconsciously, of reasons for your existence required by other people or things in your life. It makes you feel uncomfortable when you want to do something and it makes you consider the needs of others before your own. Whenever you want to do something, and do not do it because of the possibility of hurting someone's feelings, you are a victim of negative sentiment and you must rid yourself of it.
Manipulative grace is the words that people use to control you. It is sometimes a clever remark used to impress you with hidden flattery to keep you subservient. It is accomplished through impure selfishness and disingenuous behavior towards you by others and yourself. Many people who use manipulative grace are not even aware that they are doing so. The root of manipulative grace is based on others' fear or jealousy of you, for any reason, and so it must be cleared from your consciousness of acceptance or you will fall short of experiencing your true desire.
You must come to terms with the reality of negative sentiment and manipulative grace. When you do, you will no longer have to consider the sources any further. Self-Revealization Acceptance enables you to free yourself of these influences once and for all. Accept your Divine Right to Live in Joy and Freedom now!
Excerpts from Self-Revealization Acceptance, Your Divine Right to Live in Joy and Freedom
© SFKaufman 1993-2009
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Heather Koelle says:
negative sentiment and manipulative grace
Stephen,
How well said.
While reading your piece I was struck by how much I am a prisoner of both of the above,thus not livng a very happy life at all.
Oh there are some great things in my life,its not all bad.I have a career that I love,wnderful kids and grandkids,loyal and understanding women friends,but there is a big hole in my heart which I need to fill somehow.I realized it when I met someone online,recently,who epitomized and mirrored my desires and values.
but,because of negaitve sentiment and manipulative grace,I could not be with this person,as not only was I a victim of the above,but he was too,making for a fine mess of unrequited love and lost opportunity.
And now I am in the autumn of my life..still with some life in me,still able to walk and talk and think,and create,but there might not be too many years left of that.And I am agry about that,and angry at being a prisoner of the negative sentiment and manipultive grace,but dont know how to purge it without hurting those I do love.
thanks for a very unique way of looking at this dilemma!
Heather Koelle
Stephen Kaufman says:
Thank You Heather!
Hello Heather,
Thank you for your kind comments. During the time that I was in deep contemplation of the ideas presented in "Self-Revealization Acceptance", I myself was sometimes amazed at what was being revealed to me via the Spirit of the Thing Itself. Even though I had given much thought to the process before being able to fully comprehend it for myself, I went through countless trials and tribulations about my reasons for being even though I was recognized as highly accomplished in certain endeavors I had been involved with over the years.
When it dawned on me that not only was I restrained by the intentions of others, I was completely at their mercy and had to determine a way to dissolve the authority of well-meaning (perhaps) people in my life and rid myself of the inordinate guilt associated with trying to come to terms with my own reality.
The breaking down of negative sentiment and manipulative grace was astonishing to me well especially when I could not believe that I had been under the control of my own alleged inadequacies perpetrated on me even further by those who needed to control my life for their means.
I would be happy to continue this dialog with you but may I suggest that you read my book and follow the snips that I will be posting. I would also suggest that you go back over my old posts, if not already, to read samples of Self-Revealization Acceptance and personalize them. Also, soon to be released will be a companion book entitled, "52 Weekly SRAs -Reality Facilitations for Your Divine Right to Live in Joy and Freedom".
Best,
Steve