Orientation

Synopsis:
Short story in literary journal
Book Excerpt:
Orientation
The youngest of four, I was more at liberty than my siblings to break family rules. By the time I was ten, my two sisters and brother had paved the way for my less-strict childhood with their endured punishments and hard-won little freedoms. It helped that my parents, Korean immigrants, were worn down with my siblings’ teenage hormones raging, albeit silently, in the house. I stayed up reading until eleven on school nights when the rule was nine o’clock. I didn’t get yelled at if I broke a dish, and I ran the faucet while brushing my teeth. I played outside all day without being missed and got out of a host of chores, including sewing hems for my mother’s alterations business. We also weren’t allowed to visit friends’ houses, a rule that remained firm. My mother assumed reciprocity was expected and didn’t want to be obligated to other people. That phrase was like a barrier reef to everything I did—Don’t bother other people. Nor did she want other people to be obligated to us, so we weren’t allowed to have friends over. …
Topics/Categories:
Asian American, Coming of Age, cultural identity, Food, Identity, Immigrant Experience, korean, korean american, Mothers and Daughters
Genre:
Asian-American Literature, Asian-American Studies - Interest, Korean - Korean-American Literature
Type of Work:
Publishers:
Asian American Writers' Workshop
Awards:
F. Scott Fitzgerald Short Story Contest (2003) first runner up
Original Publish Date:
2003-12-31
Formats:
Paperback (literary journal)
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